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"I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. Like a five-year-old, I want to close my eyes, stick my..."

Tue, 21 May 2013 18:12:17 -0400

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I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. Like a five-year-old, I want to close my eyes, stick my fingers in my ears, stomp my feet on the floor and scream “No! No, you cannot make me, I won’t, leave me alone!” I am, simply put, too tired. So very, very tired.

I am tired of fighting with my friends. I am tired of arguing that someone groping and slapping my butt isn’t “what I have to expect”, just because I’m at a bar, and the one attacking my butt has a drink in the other hand. I am tired of hearing “boys will be boys” and “when you’re dressed like that …” and “that’s just what guys do”. I am tired of trying to drown those sentiments in loud, repetitive no’s, screamed over and over again, till my throat is sore and my voice weak – just to hear them repeated, as soon as exhaustion threatens to silence me.

I am tired of being afraid. I am tired of seeing someone writing something offensive, sexist, racist, ageist, ableist, somewhere online. I am tired of seeing those writings getting likes and lol’s, and SO TRUE’s. I am tired of being consumed by confusion and anger, typing, typing, typing and typing a seemingly endless response, including research, links and statistics, and then hesitate clicking “submit”. I am tired of knowing that I hesitate because I am afraid of the flood of responses that will come. I am tired of knowing that I will be bombarded with lighten up’s, stop whining’s and get a sense of humor’s for so long, that I will start to wonder if I am indeed wound up too tight, a nagger and humorless. I am tired of the fact that I’m afraid of being called a cunt, even though I don’t find genitalia insulting or demeaning.

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- I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. (via gingerrqueer)

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Tue, 21 May 2013 18:11:21 -0400

itsvondell: I used to make up stories of our lives together while I was falling asleep

Tue, 21 May 2013 18:11:00 -0400

itsvondell:

I used to make up stories of our lives together while I was falling asleep

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Tue, 21 May 2013 18:10:45 -0400

phlynn: remember when people choked on cinnamon to entertain the internet

Tue, 21 May 2013 18:10:40 -0400

phlynn:

remember when people choked on cinnamon to entertain the internet

robhodgson: Rob Hodgson, Yin Yang Cats, unpublished valentines...

Tue, 21 May 2013 18:10:35 -0400

robhodgson:

Rob Hodgson, Yin Yang Cats, unpublished valentines design © Urban Graphic

primroseonfire: GOD DAMMIT COLE

Tue, 21 May 2013 17:48:35 -0400

primroseonfire:

GOD DAMMIT COLE

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Tue, 21 May 2013 17:48:25 -0400

alexandralydia: Transparent of mice & men gettin pumped for...

Tue, 21 May 2013 17:48:22 -0400

alexandralydia:

Transparent of mice & men gettin pumped for rock & roll

My grandma makes me laugh so much

Tue, 21 May 2013 17:39:05 -0400

Me: Can I have sex in the house?
Grandma: Do what you want as long as I'm not here and I don't know anything about it

You can be body-positive and still have preferences. You can be a feminist and still love men.You...

Tue, 21 May 2013 16:04:36 -0400

You can be body-positive and still have preferences.

You can be a feminist and still love men.

You can be sex-positive without being interested in casual sex.

People seem to forget that the core principle of all of these is as simple as not being an asshole.

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Tue, 21 May 2013 15:17:08 -0400

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Tue, 21 May 2013 15:16:42 -0400

l-ush: true

Tue, 21 May 2013 15:16:24 -0400

l-ush:

true

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Tue, 21 May 2013 15:16:17 -0400

snorlaxatives: 99% sure my neighbors have seen me naked through my window at least 20 times

Tue, 21 May 2013 15:09:29 -0400

snorlaxatives:

99% sure my neighbors have seen me naked through my window at least 20 times

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Tue, 21 May 2013 15:00:53 -0400

Really starting to like Lana Del Rey

Tue, 21 May 2013 14:59:35 -0400

thanks Jordan x x x x

unicorns0n-acid: lithiumvision: ✧ click for similar posts...

Tue, 21 May 2013 14:38:47 -0400

unicorns0n-acid:

lithiumvision:

✧ click for similar posts ✧

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kamandarkawaii: cute

Tue, 21 May 2013 14:32:26 -0400

kamandarkawaii:

cute